How many times has a parent told us that we weren’t mature or old enough to make a decision? I know I have heard that many times throughout my lifetime, whether I chose to listen or not. Whether or not we have accpeted what our parents have said, or like to admitt that our parents may have been right we know in the end that they usually are. So when did we decide that we were old enough to have a child? When really is the right time, the right age, the right enviornment, and the right curcomstance? I think we all know how baby’s come to be. I dont think it takes much explanation, and hopefully your parents have given you all “the talk”. Either way if you’ve heard it or not, you should know how baby’s come to be made before you do the act. I believe that if you take on this responsibility and trust that you are THAT mature, then you should be ready for WHATEVER consequence is thrown your way. Am I right? If we believe that we are mature enough to handle something we know could lead to a consequence we aren’t ready to handle in life than shouldn’t we be prepared to handle that consequence whatever it is? In this case, it’s a baby. A baby is a miracle.
A gift from god given to a woman and a man. Only if god decides to send the miracle on your standards of a right time? How does THAT work? At week three an embreo has a heartbeat. Therefor the baby is starting to grow, and is now a living human being growing inside a woman’s body. That baby is there, because you believed that you were mature enough to create that baby. YOUR baby. Abortion is an option that is given to every woman who becomes pregnant. Many consider abortion, and many actually decide to have an abortion. People feel that it’s their right to choose whether or not abortion is right for them and their sittuation. The helpless child is trusting the mother and looking towards that woman for nurishment and love. The baby has no say in what goes on with her or his life at this point and wont for many long months ahead. So if the baby doesn’t know whats going on it doesn’t really matter right? Wrong. That baby is helpless. Trusting on you the mother.
Individuals argue that their sittuation isn’t where they need to be at the time, or they are in financial difficulties. These stories are upsetting, and we feel bad for anyone in these sittuations naturally, but aren’t you the one who was mature enough to handle what came before the miracle? Weren’t you the one who was faced with the consequences but chose to proceed anyway? There are methods of birth control and abstinence is always a great way to ensure that you aren’t just another statistic in teen pregnancy in the United States. If we really take time to sit and think about this issue, their are other alternatives to abortion. Adoption being one. If you feel that you can’t provide for your child and the enviornment isn’t right to raise your baby than why not give the child a chance to be successful in life with someone else? Isn’t adoption better then sentencing your own child to death?
Thats every parents worst nightmare is losing a child. Abortion is murder of your child. Their are parents that would give anything to have their child back, and your giving up on your chance to be a parent. Give you child a chance, and consider adoption over abortion. After all, it isn’t the babys fault. I understand that their are some curcomstances that people consider abortion to be their only way out, such as rape. Although I feel great sympathy for these people that have been through a tradgedy, still is it the child’s fault? God works in mysterious ways and to give up on one of his miracles is a waste. We have people that can’t concieve that want more then anything to be blessed with a child. So why not before taking the life of your own, give her or him, and opportunity to live a happy, successful life whether it is with or without you.