The purpose of this paper is to discuss my results from the “What’s My Face-to Face Communication Style?” self assessment. The research conducted with the use of the Peer Perception Survey shall allow the author to interpret the scores given by friends and acquaintances. This will enable a thorough examination of how other individuals observe the author, and also how the author perceives herself. Based upon these observations the author will determine an appropriate strategy for improving self esteem and interpersonal communication. The author will address how others form perceptions of their character, whether or not the information was surprising, and form a plan for improving the accuracy of other people assessment.
“What’s My Face-to Face Communication Style?” self assessment
The results of myself assessment was 50 which means that I listen about 67 percent of the time. This is kind of shocking to me because I assumed that I was a pretty good listener. Scores under 53 percent need drastic improvement and my scores were 14 percent higher than the lowest percentile. Although, my scores weren’t the lowest they are below average so there are sources I can read to help me improve in these areas.
Survey of Individual Perceptions Of Author
The survey conducted find out how other people perceived me was very interesting. For the most part the survey seemed to produce positive results. Most people can agree that I’m a self confident individual. I try to maintain an optimistic viewpoint on life. I work hard and love to help others even if it is an inconvenience to me. My close friends and family perceive me as an open individual. However, my coworkers and acquaintances feel that I don’t disclose too much information about myself. Most people feel that that I’m dependable, and trusted. Everyone feels that I’m independent. While some people feel that I’m intelligent some people feel that I lack common sense.
I feel that as a person there are times that I am not very self confident in decisions that I face on a day to day basis. I always over analyze whether I’m making the right choice. I did not agree with the survey that I lack common sense. I sometimes make jokes at my own expense and this could possibly be the reason people feel that I lack common sense. For the most part I am shy unless I’m around close friends and family. My coworkers don’t really get to see the fun crazy aspect of my life because I don’t disclose such information.
Was Information Surprising?
The information I learned today was surprising in some ways. For instance, the people who took the survey felt that I lack common sense. I didn’t know that making jokes would common across as being an idiot. Most people from my job felt that I was unhappy. This is very surprising to me because I’m always smiling in the office. I guess there is a certain level of professionalism that one must display in an office setting. Work is not all about fun and games so this is probably the reason they don’t feel I’m happy. Also the people at work feel that I’m hiding details of my life from them. Usually I find myself too busy listening to everyone else’s problems. I feel like they don’t give me a chance to tell them about my life. Strategy For Improvement
I need to work on being more confident in certain areas of my life. Sometimes I make fun of myself to and it causes me to look like an air head. There is a way to be funny without putting yourself down and trying to make you appear dumb. I need to learn to be a little less uptight while at work. Even though I appear to smile, I guess individuals can tell that I don’t want to be bothered. There is a certain guard which I put up because I don’t want to be bothered. Coworkers think that I’m shy, but family members know the real me. I can also try to live my life a little bit. Stop worrying about failure and make a few more mistakes. It appears that everyone thinks I’m boring because I’m always by the book. We only have one life to live so I guess its okay to let my hair down at times. Conclusion
This survey provided valuable insight in finding out how people view me. It taught me that there are many aspects of an individual’s life that only certain people get to witness. There are times for laughter, and there are times when one should be serious. It is important to find the healthy balance between the two so that individuals will perceive you in a positive manner.
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